White Men - Black Women - The White Geek's Guide to Meeting a Hot & Intelligent Black Woman

White Men - Black Women - The White Geek's Guide to Meeting a Hot & Intelligent Black Woman

By Cynthia S.

Are you a white guy who absolutely adores black women, but have no idea how to convince her to see you as anything but a friend or brother? The following tips will teach you how to relate to a black woman in a way that will make her not only appreciate you but even see you in a romantic light. Yes, even the white geek can have a hot, cool black woman, or if you prefer the black geeky woman, you can get her too.

Make Her Laugh

This is the most effective technique you can use to meet a black woman. You have to understand, that depending on the black woman, her experiences may be different. She may look at you skeptically as someone who is boring or will want to do boring things. However, if you succeed in tickling her funny bone, she will think of you as the guy who makes her laugh. And that is a start.

BET. Watch old episodes of "Girlfriend, Martin, In the Heights, House of Payne" and other black-centered shows. Not only will you learn some things about black culture, but she will appreciate that you have taken the time to learn. Being conversant in all things black will dispel any notions that she may have that your interest is just a fetish. Do not make black jokes and don't name drop black celebrities in an obvious way.

Be Understanding of her Hair

Don't ask her why she has a different hairstyle every week or why she doesn't wash her hair every day or why she runs for shelter when it starts to rain. Black women have a very complex relationship with their hair. Some wear it natural and are totally embracing of its texture, some wear it relaxed and some wear weaves or extensions. Don't ask her if you can brush her hair because most likely the answer will be no. Compliment her on here hair often and let her know that she looks great no matter which hairstyle you have.

Do empathize with her perceptions of race discrimination

An event in the news may be an obvious indicator of racism to her but not to you because your experiences differ. If she is angry about an event, just nod in understanding even if you don't understand. If she asks if you agree, tell her that although you did not perceive the event to be racial in nature, you also know your experiences are different and therefore, you trust her judgment.

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